a mothers connection with her child

When you have a child your supposed to love them cherish them and make sure nothing happens to them. The child didnt asked to be brought into this world so you as an adult should make it a priority to take care of your child. I hate to see mothers that dont take care of their children.. And I know that there are fathers out here that can leave and not think about the child but when you hear about it coming from a mother it is a terrible thing. Why would you pick drugs sex money men or liquor over your own. Its just amazing to me to see this happen. The child cant do anything but go through all this and has nothing but to feel alone. Alone in this world like no one loves them. When are these kind of women going to grow up and learn. Learn that our children need us. If they dont have us as women then who do they have. Who can they turn to. As a mother and a woman i hate to see this happening to a child. I wish i could take matters in my own hands but i cant. I have to wait on this messed up system to handle things. Most of the time when they get to your case its to late. Kids have to get abused mentally physically, or worse dead before they system steps in to handle the situation. ...........JUST SOME THOUGHTS I NEEDED TO SHARE

women who need men

Why would you play your family over a man? He does absolutly nothing for you but take. You get paid hes right there with his hand out. You got something he wants he is right there with his hand out. When your down bad and dont have anything and need someone, whos there, your family. Not that man. You want him to love you so much but he never will. He will continue to take from you as long as you allow that to happen. You will put your family last when this man does nothing for u. He doesnt help pay bills but lays up in ur house. When you go on a date with him he never pays. You always the one coming out of pocket. When will you wake up and realize that he will never love you for the wonderful woman you are. He doesnt see what I see. And I see a wonderful woman with alot of goals and opportunity ahead of you. One of the few woman out here in the world who is doing something with their life. He sees you as a gold mine, or atm. All he wants is your money or what you can buy him. When your lonely is he there? When ur broke is he there? When your sad is he there? When your bill is due is he there? When you need a ride is he there? If you have answered no to any of those questions he is not the one for you. Get a grip on life and understand that there is more out here for you. There is someone who will love you for you and not take what you have but help you build what you dont have and strive to get. And while your looking for him family will always be here for you when you need it most.